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Can I be “Blank” and still be a Kitten?
Yes.
The answer is yes, but you probably want a more detailed answer so let’s go over some things I’ve been asked before or heard before from others in the past.
“Can I be overweight and be a Kitten?” Yes, weight has nothing to do with being a Pet and some people even find overweight people more attractive the curvier they are.
“Can I be tall and be a Pet/Submissive?” Yes, I dealt with this but didn’t know until I heard someone ask about it, they were so confused that I was really tall for a girl and Submissive. You can be any height and size and be a kitty, being a Pet is all about mindsets and the relationships of intimacy you have with another, not even just sexual things but everything, the closeness, the honesty, the safety, etc.
“What if my Dominant is shorter than me?” And? Short Dominant people are not at all lacking in knowing how to keep kitties in line and can act very very tall even more than a lot of tall people.
“Can I be a boy and be a Kitten?” YES! you can be any gender and be a Kitten. It isn’t only for one type of gender nor one type of person.
“Can I be tall and girly in Kitten Space?” Yes, whether you’re girly, Gothic or sexy and can’t be stopped. Be yourself. Owners will always rather you be yourself because that’s the Kitty they love and adore.
“Can I be manly and be a Kitten?” Yes, there’s tons of manly men who are very Submissive and couldn’t be happier to wear Kitten gear!
“Can I be a Kitten without gear?” YES! It’s all about mindset, not everyone has gear and some don’t even want gear and that is A okay. It’s all about the mindset and personality you bring to it!
“Can I not like cat toys and still be a Kitten?” Yes, plenty of ways to be a Kitten and no one way is a one size fits all, find out what fits you well and do that to your heart’s content.
“Do I have to be on all fours at all times?” That depends on who owns you, some Owners demand that cause they find it erotic and hot, some don’t care either way, some only demand it if you’re being a bad Kitty. It really comes down to person to person and is very much something you can negotiate with an Owner.
“Do I have to have a leash?” In the past I heard some Kittens felt weirded out by a leash as they felt that was more for Puppy Players and not Kittens, these days so many have leashes and I would say do what makes you happy, weather you’re a little Kitty or a big Panther if you want one go for it, if not no one is forcing it upon you and you should express your feelings to any Owner you have about the things you do and don’t want. Owners are usually very caring and wanna do their best to help you feel comfortable and happy.
“Can I be LGBTQ+ and be a Kitten?” Yes, no matter where you fall on the spectrum you can be a Kitten!
“Can I have blank Disorder/Disability and still be a Kitten?” Yes, my advice would just be to tailor your pet play spaces and activities to things and activities that are easier for you and that will make things more enjoyable! Always make sure you can be comfortable and safe!
“Can I have multiple Pet/Sub spaces and still be a Kitten?” Yes, many people find they have a few or more different Pet and Sub spaces whether that’s brought out through emotions, events, times of the year, you can still be a Kitten when you want to be one!
The point I want to drive home with this article is to highlight you can be a Kitten no matter what!Aftercare
Aftercare is an important theme in BDSM – related content.
But what is Aftercare?
Aftercare is doing whatever you need to „come back to reality“ after practicing bdsm. It is an important time to calm down. Sometimes bdsm experience include a lot of feelings – sometimes adrenaline too. So that is the part where everybody involved can calm down.
Not every session needs aftercare. But sometimes you can have a kind of „dropped“ feeling after a session. That’s where aftercare should take place.
It strongly depends on the person and the feelings you experience. So in the end aftercare is a really personal theme and everybody has to find out what works for them best.
Note! Aftercare is not only for the submissive person, it can also be a need of the dominant person.
Aftercare after Kittenplay
Sometimes some aftercare routines can be a good way to get yourself out of kittenspace. That can be some simple cuddling or drinking a cup of tea. But sometimes people need more – as an example after a long time on the ground on your knees or some kind of spanking. There, you can put on some lotion and put yourself in cozy blankets laying on the bed. Take a warm shower or bath. Just find something that feels relaxing for you. Other things that are a good go to is snacks because you want to keep your nutrition up, relaxing music and even naps can be a very big world of difference and a very healing process for the individuals involved.
Kittenplay as Aftercare
When you feel well in kitten play that can also be your option to calm down. There are several possibilities to calm down as a kitten. If it’s cuddling with your caregiver, or just laying in some cozy blankets and have some snacks. Pro tip, putting a blanket in a dryer for a few minutes can be a very comforting thing. Along with taking a nice hot bath or watching your favorite tv shows and or movies is also a great way to come back down from that high level of energy. In the end it depends on you and what will make you feel well. So if playing with some feather toys relax you – that’s also fine!
So all in all – Aftercare is important to calm down when your emotions got high during some activities. It it not necessary after everything and it is also very personal. Just try out some different things and when you find something, put it in a little bag so that you can grab it every time you need it.
But do not try too put your caregiver in a bag, I heard they don’t appreciate that. 😉
I hope the article has given you some inspiration – one personal tip: For me,
🍫 chocolate is a thing that always works.Rashes In Kitten Play!
Are you someone with very sensitive skin? Great so am I! Don’t fret a thing! I have some advice!
As I’m sure many are aware there is lots of people allergic to things like peanuts, honey, latex and the list goes on and on.
But what do you do if you find yourself allergic to the PetPlay gear you have?
The safest option would be to throw away whatever is causing skin irritations.
No kitty wants an owwie let alone a burning one.
But then where does that leave you?Here’s my advice on dealing with skin allergies.
Try to write down what you are or might be possibly allergic too and be careful but give yourself a test, I learned growing up testing for rashes is important to keep an eye on things and how your body reacts. Just gently touch your arm with something you might be allergic too and wait a few minutes, allergies are usually fast and happen right away. If a rash does occur then take off the material immediately.
(Usually signs of rashes are: red marks or hives / itching / burning sensations)
Run your arm under cool water to calm it down, if you fear you might be in danger keep medicine (anti-histamines) and an Epipen near by or even do it with a friend or someone you trust. Safety comes first even in researching your body so be safe!
Allergic to latex? don’t use latex gloves, latex based gear or latex condoms in sexual scenes.
There’s safer options like rubber gloves and polyurethane condoms. These are conmanly found in most drug stores and sex stores along with online condom selling stores.
“But what about my gear? I spent so much money / have such an attachment.” I hear you asking, I can empathize, I have had to throw out a lot and I wish I had someone to talk to during it.
If you love the way a certain thing looks, find something similar, sometimes you can find things even better and cheaper priced but not lacking in quality. While I know Amazon was under fire a lot recently it is still not a bad site to find things, Etsy is always the dream of many Pet Players. As always try and make sure the things you get are of good quality because they’ll be less likely to be at risk of a rash
“But what materials are likely to give me a rash?” I’m glad you asked! Latex is of course the big one I want to address but things like gold, silver, nickle, costume jewellery and things that make you sweat a lot or rub up against and chafe your skin are all a high risk of causing a rash to happen. Stainless steel is your friend, fake furs are your friend, fleece is your friend, they’re not usually high in allergens where as real fur animal tails and ears can cause allergies and rashes, not fun!
“Okay but what if I can’t find anything I like?” I have been there, I understand, that feeling sucks and makes you feel like you wasted your time, but if you keep looking I promise you will find things. Trust me there. I have found great things in the strangest places! So don’t give up! Your dream rash free gear is out there waiting for you to find it!
“What if I have a rash before a scene with my Dominant?” I hear ya, that can feel embarrassing but don’t fret, If you have a Dominant who cares about you they’re going to be supportive and either stop the scene entirely or continue with alterations to not agitate your rash, Remember the relationship between you and an Owner is 50/50 and a two way street, if you have a rash and decide to cancel plans, that is OK. Safety and health come first and your Owner may even be able to help nurse you back to healthy skin if you so choose to have them help.
“What if I don’t want their help or don’t have an owner?” No problem!
Here’s how to care for a rash all on your own!
First figure out what kind of rash do you have?
Is it itchy?
Burning?
Bumps? (hives)
Or super red? / warm to touch (histamine signs)
If itchy, Aloe is lovely to apply as is taking cool baths with oatmeal products you know you’re okay to use and milk in baths can hep mellow your skin and make it softer. Calamine lotion is also a big help and famously known for helping children with chicken pocks!
Burning? Run cool water on the rash, not ice cold but cool luke warm water helps this a lot I find and try to be careful with clothes that may touch the effected area.
Bumps? Again, Aloe , Aloe , Aloe , that green plant is your friend if you have rashes and Calamine lotion will also help
Super red and warm? I call these heat rashes and I find cool water, cool baths and milk baths help calm it down a lot.
Anti-histamines are also normally going to help any type of rash but if you find a rash isn’t going away at home, be sure to get seen by a Doctor for better advice/medicine if you so needBecome a Mentor and make a positive impact!
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Become a mentor and make a positive impact in a kitten’s life!
When you were new to Kitten play, did you know how to talk to your partner about how you feel? Do you remember wanting to wear your first collar or set of ears?
Simple things that may seem easy or straightforward to you now may be a complete mystery to a person new to Kitten play or petplay in general.What types of volunteers are we looking for?
Kitten-play.com is looking for mentors from all backgrounds, ages (21+), who can share their experiences in petplay / Kitten play.
We are looking for volunteers to help teach our new kittens about kittenplay and petplay, someone who will help them thrive, and who will expose them to new experiences!
What makes a good mentor?
Before becoming a mentor, here are a few things to understand about the role of mentoring.
Most of us have had a teacher, supervisor, or coach who has been a mentor to us and made a positive difference in our lives. Those people wore many hats, acting as role models, cheerleaders and friends. Mentors assume these different roles during the course of a relationship, and share some basic qualities:
- A sincere desire to be involved with another persons
- Respect for young people
- Active listening skills
- Empathy
- Ability to see solutions and opportunities
- Flexibility
If you are interested in becoming a Kitten-play.com Mentor, please read the next section titled “What does a mentor do?” and then reach out to our staff @Discord or via email.
What does a mentor do?
As a mentor, you will:
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Share your knowledge and commit to at least 10 hours of mentoring per month.
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Create mentorship goals with the kittens
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Provide kitten- and petplay guidance to kittens
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Let your kittens take the lead their learning and development
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Help with problem-solving
We are looking for mentors who are interested in guiding our kittens in:
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Modeling (ears, collars, tails, makeup, posing)
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Relationships (petplay / BDSM dynamics, how to find a master, training)
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Personal development and the kitten play lifestyle in general
What do Mentors gain from the mentorship program?
If you become a mentor, you can:
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Gain access to new ideas and fresh perspectives
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Achieve personal growth and learn more about yourself
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Enhance your ability to coach and develop other peers
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Network with other kittens who share your desire to help others
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Gain additional visibility and respect within the community
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Gain a sense of accomplishment and personal validation
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Have fun 🙂
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What You’ll Do
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What’s in It for You
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